Intentional Parenting for Imperfect People with Lindsay Garrett

With so many different parenting strategies out there, it can be easy to get overwhelmed. This week, we’re cutting the overwhelm so you can focus on what you value. Yes, even you: the Type A, the perfectionists, the overthinkers, and over-planners! This week, episode 22 of Poised & Powerful Podcast is sharing the questions you should ask yourself (and your partner) to be emotionally prepared for parenthood - and able to figure out what approaches work for you!

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Lindsay C. M. Garrett, LCSW is an expert in the field of adoption, parent preparation, and child welfare. Lindsay is known for her directness, witty sense of humor, loving others through sharing knowledge, and always having a plan. 

Lindsay started writing for Houston Mom’s Blog in the same year she became a parent. Her brain tends to sort things out through writing them down, and in her quest to sort through the transition to parenthood, she wrote her first book, Parent Goals: The Millennial’s Guide to New Parent Preparedness

For her entire career, children have been Lindsay’s passion, and by extension their parents. She has spent ten years supporting parents through adoption, and the most inspiring part of her work is seeing the magic and mess of growing families. When she is not working or writing, you can find Lindsay watching as much TV as her kids will allow, organizing life in her bullet journal, or baking treats in an introvert’s ploy to make friends. Lindsay lives in Spring, TX with her husband and two children.

In this episode of Poised & Powerful Podcast, Lindsay Garret and I discuss the following:

  • While Lindsay had a lot of knowledge of family issues in her practice as a social worker, there is nothing like learning through experience! 

  • Identifying your own emotional triggers and taking care of your own well-being. How to reframe your approach to self-care and ditch guilt about taking time for yourself. 

  • Use your planning brain constructively: make a parenting mission statement - and reduce anxiety.

  • Lindsay’s experience with postpartum anxiety and when to seek professional mental health support.

All the things talked about -- self-care, discipline, mission statements, parenting in general, fears, and relationships-- start with you. The reality is that if you put yourself last, you are going to be a burnt-out mess and your child is going to suffer for it. Everything has to start with you.

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Drop the Ball by Tiffany Dufu*

A Practical Wedding/ Meg Keene

Ep. 19: Fathers Need Mental Health Support Too! with Fabrice Lubin

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